Episode 105

EP #105 Is the Internet making us stupid?

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In this episode, Robb and Tina discuss the impact of the internet on our lives and whether it makes us stupid. They explore the pros and cons of the internet, including its effect on brain function and the loss of certain skills such as map reading and memorizing phone numbers. They also discuss the convenience of GPS and navigation apps, as well as the potential negative effects of excessive phone use on younger generations. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a balance between the benefits and drawbacks of the internet.

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[Robb]: And welcome to another show of Don't

Get This twisted. Hi, I'm Rob along with my

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[Robb]: cohost as always, Tina. How are you

doing, Tina?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'm good Rob, it's a little

early, but I'm doing this!

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[Robb]: Yeah, not too shabby. I'm running a

little tired this morning. I've been up a while,

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[Robb]: so. But yeah, not too bad. And better

to do it while it's still somewhat nice outside

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[Robb]: before the heat

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: comes, because it's coming. But yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: It's coming, it's here.

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[Robb]: well, it's here, but at this time in

the morning when we're recording this, it's

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[Robb]: only 85.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Ah, that's it. It's only

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[Robb]: Which

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: 85.

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[Robb]: is... It's only 85. It's only gonna

get another 15 degrees hotter today. You know,

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[Robb]: I mean, as much as we can pitch about

the heat here in Southern California, like,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: It's been mild.

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[Robb]: I talked to some people who I do business

with out in the desert, like Palm Springs,

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[Robb]: and it's

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm.

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[Robb]: been like 116.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: And then I talked to one of the guys

at our Arizona store and it was 122 the other

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[Robb]: day.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Holy cow.

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[Robb]: Yeah, I was like,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah, I don't want

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[Robb]: ah.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to be in that.

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[Robb]: I'm like, no dude, I'm good. I'll take

the 100 degrees,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: for sure. Anyway, this week we're going

to talk, does the internet make us stupid?

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[Robb]: Or stupider,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm.

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[Robb]: or dumber, or, I don't know, because

maybe all those words aren't grammatically

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[Robb]: correct, so maybe it is. But, I... through

a couple of articles your way, and it has some

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[Robb]: science to it. There's been some studies

about it. And look, there's pros and cons.

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[Robb]: I'll throw some of them out, because

I thought some of them were actually pretty

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[Robb]: good.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm

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[Robb]: The pros, the speed of the internet

is different from previous breakthrough technologies

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[Robb]: and is reprogramming our brains for

the worse. I kind of agree with that. I'm sorry,

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[Robb]: these are cons. IQ scores have been

falling for decades with the rise of technology.

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[Robb]: The internet is causing us to lose the

ability to perform simple tasks, which I kind

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[Robb]: of agree, probably not in our generation,

but definitely with the newer generation. On

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[Robb]: the flip side of that,

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[Robb]: A lot of the fears, the pros are a lot

of the fears that they thought were going to

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[Robb]: come with the internet and technology

are pretty much unfounded. The internet gives

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[Robb]: diverse populations of people more equal

access to information and I think that's very

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[Robb]: true mostly in other countries before

the internet. They didn't have the ways of

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[Robb]: getting some of the information. and

it's changing how our brain works and how we

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[Robb]: access and process information. So,

look, there's pros and cons to the internet

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[Robb]: and we've probably both seen them. There's

been a couple of studies, one of the ones I

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[Robb]: sent you, it's a professor out of Canada.

They really can't tell you or find any evidence

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[Robb]: that it is definitely making us more

stupid, which... I think is a plus based on

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[Robb]: their findings. Some of them I think

are pretty good where they talk about how we

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[Robb]: are using more of our brain because

the internet and smartphones are making it

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[Robb]: easier for us to do some of these things

so we don't have to think about them. It says

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[Robb]: GPS. where we really don't have to think

anymore about how to get to a place. It's telling

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[Robb]: us how to do it and it's telling us

with traffic.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: Which I think is good and bad because

in the old days, when you didn't know how to

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[Robb]: get there, you had to be able to read

a map. That's gone

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I

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[Robb]: away.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: never learned how to read

a map completely.

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[Robb]: Really?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That was one of the things

I was like, I'm very challenged when it comes

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to directions,

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[Robb]: Hmm

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: but then add a map and

I would screw it all up. For me, some for some

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: reason I couldn't make

that connection actually work. Used to drive

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: my ex effing crazy. He

got to the point where I did all the driving

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and he would just tell

me which way to go because

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[Robb]: Right?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I was not getting that.

Thomas guides remember back in the day when

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: we started driving

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[Robb]: I know how

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Thomas

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[Robb]: to use a Thomas

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: guides

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[Robb]: guide.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: were the death of me. I'm

like, can you just give me handwritten directions?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Like just tell me what

I'm supposed to look for. I'll get there

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[Robb]: Right? Yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: And

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[Robb]: I'm...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and that was before phones

to call and say hey, I'm kind of lost like

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[Robb]: Yeah.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: we didn't have cell phones

We had to go to a payphone did that a hundred

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: times Yeah, not

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: fun

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[Robb]: Yeah, when I worked for the good guys

in the very beginning, I did deliveries for

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[Robb]: them, and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and cheese.

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[Robb]: then we had a Thomas Guide. I became

very proficient with a Thomas Guide. To this

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[Robb]: day, if you give me a Thomas Guide,

I'll tell you how to get there.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah,

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[Robb]: I can

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not

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[Robb]: still

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: me.

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[Robb]: do it.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That was one thing, you

know, I was pretty smart. I did really well

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: in school and don't have

a problem with most things, but a freaking

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: map. I don't know why.

It just was not good. So for me, the GPS has

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: made it better because

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'm now more on time and

I know when to leave and I know that I'll get

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: there. Or something will

help me get there. So I don't know. I think

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that in that instance,

the internet's helped me. dramatically.

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[Robb]: Yeah, look, GPS is just help, it's a

fact.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: And that you can put in pretty much

anything, right?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: You can put cross streets and it'll

try

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: to look it up. You can put the business

name, the street name, and it'll try to come

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[Robb]: up with some things, which I think definitely

helps. And if you know the address, you're

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[Robb]: in like Flynn. So.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm, but you could Google

up the address and you could put it into your

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: GPS in less than 30 seconds

and You have that all together. So I think

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: for that the Internet's

a win

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[Robb]: For sure. And like I said, if you're

using something like Waze, and I think Google,

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[Robb]: I think that's Traffic Now, pretty much

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: all of them are doing, helping you with

traffic and giving you different scenarios

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[Robb]: based on the quickest route.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: right?

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[Robb]: So my only problem is when you know

where you're going, you might still throw the

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[Robb]: GPS in just to see with traffic, but

you might know the streets better so you'll

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[Robb]: get off and make, you know what I mean?

Like, there's still human... knowing things

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[Robb]: that will make your travel maybe better

if you know where you're going.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: It's kind of like when I come over to

where you're at, if we're gonna go to Chi-Chi's

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[Robb]: or if we're gonna go to a place that

I know I can get to faster using different

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[Robb]: streets, because the GPS thinks like,

okay, this is the fastest route based on mileage,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: but I know not to get on Recita.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: So. If it tells me to get off, I'm like,

nah, I'm good. I'll get off on another street

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[Robb]: and work my way around some

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah,

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[Robb]: of that stuff.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: nobody wants to get off

into traffic like that.

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[Robb]: Right, so yes, I think there, it's making

our life easier, and maybe you're learning

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[Robb]: the route in your own head that you

don't continually have to use it.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: But one of the things was phone numbers,

since we come from an era of having a phone

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[Robb]: book to write it in, or somewhere I

have a list of phone numbers from when I was

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[Robb]: in early high school,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: and I kept it, it's in a box somewhere,

that literally has all these people's numbers

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[Robb]: written down on it, and I would keep

that in a notebook. So if I needed to call

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[Robb]: somebody that I didn't call often enough,

I would go down the line and find their number,

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[Robb]: our phone today, but I knew tons of

people's phone numbers. So I

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: think that that's an art that went away

with us.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah, I remember losing

my phone in Vegas once and I didn't even know

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: my well now ex I didn't

know his number because he had gotten a new

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: one. I knew his old ones

but I didn't know the new one and I was like

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I can't even call to tell

him I don't have my phone. First of all, I

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: can't make a call. I don't

have a phone. Second of all, I don't know his

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: number. Can't make the

call so that made me remember. I was always

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: really good at remembering

numbers. I still am somebody tells me a number

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'm like say it again,

and then I have it it's in my head, but um

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: yeah that caught me off

guard So since then there are my dad my brother

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: my uncle my ex my kid You

know there's a couple of people that I had

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: always kept their phone

numbers just in case You gotta have somebody

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: a lifeline of some sort

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[Robb]: Yeah, I, thankfully we can back a lot

of the stuff up. I think it's a good bet to

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[Robb]: always have important numbers written

down if you

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: have to, like in a wallet. or a purse

or something to that nature where if you really,

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[Robb]: really had to get a number, you could.

Because

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: if we ever lose our phones, we're lost.

We have no idea how to function as a member

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[Robb]: of society now, which is kind of scary

to the point where we really can't do much.

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[Robb]: And heaven forbid if you watch what

it does to a younger generation, take their

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[Robb]: phone away.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: They flip out.

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[Robb]: Oh man, it's...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I remember when my kid

was little, she wanted a cell phone. I was

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: like over my dead effing

body. You're going to like go to school and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: learn. I don't want all

the problems that my friends were having with

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: their kids. And she didn't

have one. And then when we got her one, it

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: was like, I don't know

a couple years before she graduated. She was

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: only allowed to use it

to call for, you know, to be picked up if she

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: was staying after school

or she was out with friends. It was only to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: be used for that. There

was no internet on it. I refused because I

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: felt like she needed to

be present and if she had that phone, she was

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not going to be and it

was just a situation where we needed her to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: be with us. You know what

I mean? We needed her to be checked in

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and a lot of the kids at

the time were not checked in. Because of that,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I feel that she was able

to go to college because she learned how to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: concentrate. She learned

how to do without a phone. She had a life.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: And so out of all the kids

that she grew up with, she was the only one

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that graduated college

and then went on to her master's. So I'm like,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I think I won on that one.

I think, she doesn't talk to me, but still

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: she could take care of

herself. And I don't know if she could have

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: had I given her a phone

and that all that. comes with it would have

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: helped her out as much

as not having it.

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[Robb]: I'll agree with you. I think I've had

some issues with my son during the years of

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[Robb]: not being checked in. It's horrible.

We've talked about it on dating shows where

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[Robb]: people are at tables not communicating

at all because they're on their phones. And

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[Robb]: I still kind of have that sometimes

with him, not as bad because I'll call him

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[Robb]: out on it. You know dude, we're at dinner

put your phone down like chill out. Tell your

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[Robb]: friends you're eating

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: And if they don't get it, I don't care

but um I see it way more and like we talked

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[Robb]: about it as well with like babysitting

like people just put an ipad in front of their

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[Robb]: kid to babysit now and There's so many

Bad things that can be learned off of it that

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Oh yeah!

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[Robb]: you're that you're right where we might

be dumbing our kid down and teaching them things

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[Robb]: at the same time.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm. We had a conversation

my I'm on a thread with my brother and his

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: friends that we all grew

up together and They were they were talking

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: about oh getting the iPhone

versus the Android you know they were talking

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: about that and like Who

knew you could get all of your porn for free

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and the guys are like you

could get that with any phone You have and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that made me laugh because

I remember back in the day they would go and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: they had there's this one

friend's dad had a bunch of porn and they would

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: go and steal it and then

it would go around the whole group of friends

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and then they'd all make

jokes about it to this day. So that to me was

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: it was kind of a funny

conversation because they're like, yeah, we

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: don't need to steal it

anymore. It's right there. You

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[Robb]: Right.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: know, it's at the palm

of all of our hands. And you know, does your

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: wife get mad about it?

My wife, my wife is so beyond caring. It's

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: like not a big deal. But

the other another wife had found some and you

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: know on the history and

was pissed and he's like how can you be mad

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: it's at my fingertips

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[Robb]: Right.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and i couldn't stop laughing

because i know these guys and i know how they

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: are but man if their women

have a problem with them watching porn or listening

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to porn doing whatever

they're doing with porn they got they got a

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: rude awakening because

these guys have been doing this since before

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: telephones

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[Robb]: Right, right. I think everything has

been made simple and in the touch of our hand,

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[Robb]: which is awesome,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: to a degree. Like if you wanted like

way back in the day, I remember talking to

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[Robb]: my dad and we'd be talking about a movie

and we're like, oh man, you remember that actor

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[Robb]: and you could never come up with it.

and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: you'd be, now they have the internet

movie database

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm

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[Robb]: and all you do is type in the name of

the movie and every actor that was in it comes

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[Robb]: up. So

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: yes, there's great knowledge to be learned,

but

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: We

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[Robb]: on the

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: used

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[Robb]: flip,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to like call people to

find

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[Robb]: oh

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: out,

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[Robb]: yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: hey, do you remember that

movie? Who was in it? My dad

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[Robb]: who was

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: was

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[Robb]: in

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: great

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[Robb]: it?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: for that.

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[Robb]: Yep.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: My uncle's great for that

still. My brother too with music. I'll be like,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: what song is this? Who

sang it? He goes, oh no, it wasn't those people.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: It was these people. I'm

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[Robb]: It

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: like,

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[Robb]: was these guys,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: how

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[Robb]: yeah.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: did he remember? Like.

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[Robb]: Exactly. I'm big on pop culture as well,

so I do know a lot of this stuff, and I know

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[Robb]: a

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: lot about old movies. The guy that sits

next to me at work, he's like 60-something

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[Robb]: years old. and we'll be talking about

something. He's like, oh, you remember this

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[Robb]: guy in this movie? I go, yeah, that's

not right. He's like, what do you mean? I said,

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[Robb]: it's this guy. And he goes, no, and

I'll look it up. And he's like, oh, he goes,

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[Robb]: how do you remember this stuff? I go,

look, my dad watched old movies. So I know

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[Robb]: a lot of pop culture references

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: or older movies. But yeah, it does help.

Those are the helping things. The flip side

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[Robb]: is I've worked with younger guys when

I was in alarm tech. And again, not to shit

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[Robb]: on younger people. but these people

didn't know how to use hand tools. Like a screwdriver,

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[Robb]: this kid had never used a screwdriver

before or a hammer. Like you've never used

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[Robb]: a hammer before? He's like, no. I says,

who did the stuff in your house? Well, my dad

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[Robb]: did. Like he didn't teach you how to

use fucking tools? No.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Thanks for watching!

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thing. It's like whenever I do something, I

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And when he got a car, I put a small bag of

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Like if we need a wrench, you gotta have a

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have that. And how

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what are you going to do?

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for me was I write notes to my niece and nephew

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to me. She said, um, Thea, I don't know how

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what? How do you not know? But they don't teach

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teach to keep people's brain going. You know,

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Why would you not know how to write?

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You write a card. You can't type in a card.

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if you make a card or whatever you could, but

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writing.

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all how they know how to do it.

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so he could do a signature on his ID.

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just write it out. I go, no, I go, then anyone

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have a signature line that's different than

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you. And he's like,

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is dumb, they're like, that's stupid.

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that is where we're losing the battle of the

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They've made things so easier now that

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learn anything.

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part of the internet, and I guess it could

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be fair, is that it's... You don't know if

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kick your ass. See, technology, we're talking

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you smarter? And we had to take a small break

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record and I didn't. And lo and behold, I looked

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good stuff, like about how kids need to get

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I think that it's such an important thing that

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our children with devices instead of getting

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a city thing.

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me, I spend time with them. I pull out some

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something, and I hate baking, but I'll do that

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I always try to entertain them, be around them,

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though I'm in an adult situation. Like kids

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whole scene and not heard. I came from that

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you need to spend time with kids, they need

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out to people. So I'm not one of those people

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like to play games and do stuff with them,

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the norm.

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communities, it's more like that still, or

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lived in the city my whole life.

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seeing is phones are taking over. You know,

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and she's at school, I'm like, dude, you're

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down, learn what you're supposed to learn,

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only a minute. No worries. Like,

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in this.

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school three years ago, two years ago, three

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I came from that. He would text me from school

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doing tonight? It's like, dude, learn. Are

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dude. But that was the problem. Teachers have

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realize that they're gonna be in class and

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be hard to be a teacher though. How could you

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just find the answers right in front of you?

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where kids really aren't learning anymore.

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an answer, it's a phone away. I know some classes

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a wall where you have to put your phone in

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go, hey, are you here to learn? And if you're

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of be like Tam. I think Tam would have done

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like, hey,

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I mean, mostly in the communicators class we

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was to step in and be part of a group and,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Present, he had to be

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have been, oh, he would have been a monster.

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in today's climate of trying to teach, you

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away because part of teaching is to have interaction

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in the conversation. So,

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on a phone. And like I said, for the tasks

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amazing. It is, it just is. But it's definitely

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but just it makes us not have to learn. and

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tool that we should all continue to do at whether

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are building blocks for as you go forward.

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they tell I see a lot of things with Alzheimer's

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about because Tony Bennett just died.

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And you know that like he couldn't remember

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he could still go on stage and sing.

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music.

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deteriorating really badly now,

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They posted a picture of him the other day.

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doing these like long harmonica numbers.

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of course on the internet, that how music and

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maybe that there's something where it unlocks

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keeping our minds going in the right direction,

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later on, where you're just not remembering

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study or not having to really put in work,

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It's like, hold on,

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Where you're just not keeping the information

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when you need it and then dispelling it out

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hope I'm wrong. Because... We need a generation

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learning important parts because they're going

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get older.

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and know how to play video games doesn't mean

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anything.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: very true.

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teaching methods or the internet, they probably

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want you to learn hands-on things where we

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class. They've gotten rid of shop class in

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[Robb]: and put computer science in, which again,

I think is a usable thing, but we should make

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Well, how do they get fine

motor skills if they're not using their hands

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to build things and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to and to type things to

write things like you need to learn how to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: use your hands to the ability

that you know we're going to have doctors as

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: surgeons or you know all

these things come into play and if they're

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do anything but tap on something we've we're

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: going to be in a sad display

at some point. Because people won't be able

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to do what they need to

do for, you know, to keep their hands alive,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to keep their, to be able

to work on anything hands-on.

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way.

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a small amount of people who can do it, which

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trade, you'll be a killer. You'll be a killer

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[Robb]: if you know how to weld or do plumbing

or build houses.

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motor skills. I'm talking more like being able

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a surgeon, being able to feel things that,

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a doctor or a vet, or you need to be very in

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And I think that kids are not getting that

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what you're saying, but on a home thing, people

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Cut meat, cut vegetables. Like, those are also

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digit in your own house if you don't know how

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they grip it like the grip of death. trying

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm.

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[Robb]: no, like this is a, this, it takes technique.

You have to, you know, ease it through the

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: you can't just manhandle

everything.

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[Robb]: no. And, and I've seen kids give up,

like halfway through. I don't want to do this

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skills that will get you through later on in

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on in life if you can't do it? And you know

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: answer at now is? I'll just go on my

phone and order

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[Robb]: food.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: take it out.

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[Robb]: wow. Or people with cars would rather

get on their phone when the restaurant is 10

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have someone bring it and pay three times as

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to pick up my phone and order it.

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costing you double the amount when you can

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[Robb]: just get in your car, drive down the

street, sit at the place. Even if it's fast

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[Robb]: food, sit at the place,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yep.

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[Robb]: eat for way less than get right back

in your car and it costs less. to get your

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[Robb]: meal and the gas you just paid than

it was to order it from the person who they

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three times the amount to come into your house.

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like, wow, wow. Okay, you know you're gonna

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: gets to be a really lonely

life doing that.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Because you don't know

your neighbors, you know? And we, I live right

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: in the epicenter of, you

know, where we had one of the biggest earthquakes

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: in California, a couple

times, you know, I'm right there. And you need

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to know your neighborhood.

You need to know, you know, your people that

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: you live next to and around

the corner from. And you should know the people

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that work in local stores

and different things, because at some point

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that's going to be your

lifeline. And

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: if

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: you're

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[Robb]: need them.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: spending all your time

in the house and having everything delivered

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: to you, are you even having

a chance encounter with a neighbor? You're

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not, you're absolutely

not. So you're, you're setting yourself up

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: for failure and you don't

even realize it.

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm. Well, yes, and I think it's

making it Harder for people to want to interact

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[Robb]: because it's much

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: easier to sit behind a keyboard and

just text people all day where you don't really

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[Robb]: How you're just getting a message across

Which I think is a horrible thing too, because

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[Robb]: how many times have you sent a text

message to somebody and they read it the wrong

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Oh my God, I've done that.

And

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[Robb]: Oh.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'm like, wait, what did

you say? And they'll say, read it again. And

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'm like, oh, okay, got

it.

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[Robb]: Yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: At least I ask though,

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[Robb]: or they'll

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: what

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[Robb]: go,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: do you mean?

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[Robb]: yeah, they'll be like, I'm like, why

are you mad at me? I'm not mad at

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: you, just, and they're like, oh, well,

because the way you wrote it, it's like inflection

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[Robb]: is everything. How you mean it is totally

different. Where, and I have a friend who,

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[Robb]: when he texts me, even on Facebook,

he leaves voice messages.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm.

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[Robb]: Even on Messenger, every single message

from him is a voice message.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Nice.

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[Robb]: because he would rather just say it.

So there is no worry about how you

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: you could hear

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: the

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: feeling in his voice. You

could feel like where he's coming from. You

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: get a vibe for sure. Yeah.

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[Robb]: Yeah, and which I guess with FaceTime,

you're at least better, right? But I couldn't

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[Robb]: imagine always FaceTiming the person

who lives down the street. You know what I

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[Robb]: mean? Like...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I really don't FaceTime

per se, but when I do, I enjoy it because I'm

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: like, Oh my gosh, I get

to see your face. I

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: love this, you know, it,

and we'll have like a conversation conversation,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not just a real quick,

like let's go here, let's go there sort of

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: thing. It's when, when

I've been on FaceTime, it's to interact thoroughly

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So FaceTime, I'm kind of a fan of.

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[Robb]: Yeah, I am as well. But it's generally

with people who are further away where you

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: to FaceTime with them.

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[Robb]: I could do it with people local if you're

doing it quickly. Like, boop, hey, I need to

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[Robb]: do this, and this. I'm running a bit

behind. Just so you know, I'm in the car, I'm

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[Robb]: on the way. Cool.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Or it's great at the grocery

store when you're picking up something for

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: somebody and you're not

quite sure what to get.

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[Robb]: You can go

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah,

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[Robb]: boop.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: if FaceTime... Look, do

you want this one or that

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[Robb]: Yeah,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: one?

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[Robb]: yeah. Do you want the pink box or the

green box?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Right, check them out,

which is which.

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[Robb]: Which is which?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: And yeah, I agree. Those are where the

internet and things make things so easy, but

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[Robb]: on a small level. It's not something

that's, it's not changing the dynamics of how

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[Robb]: things are done. like how you learn

something or how you interact with somebody.

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[Robb]: It's, it's making it easy, simple, and

to the point. Hopefully, that's what it'll

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[Robb]: all be used for later on. It's a great

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[Robb]: information. The information's super

high way, right? That's what it was sold as.

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[Robb]: I think it even started with AOL. I

think AOL is where we lost track where everything

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[Robb]: was about messaging people. How can

I get into a chat room or how can I chat with

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[Robb]: somebody? And then it just went right

to text messaging where, yes, a text message

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[Robb]: is awesome. when you need to get something

across. And you need a simple message not to

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[Robb]: bother someone if they're doing work

or doing where

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: you can go, oh yeah, there's the message,

cool. I can tell that it's changing because

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[Robb]: I watched the keynote for the next iOS

for Apple. And this is at least for Apple users.

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[Robb]: I don't know, I haven't used an Android

in years. What they've done now is where you

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[Robb]: can send a voice message to somebody

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Hmm.

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[Robb]: and if you want, you can click it and

it'll give you it in writing.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm.

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[Robb]: So I think it'll help both sides of

that equation where if you can't hear the message.

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[Robb]: So you can't hear the message. you know,

in the text, you'll be able to at least read

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[Robb]: it. Where,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: like if you were in a meeting, you're

like, oh okay, this is what they said. Or you

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[Robb]: can click on it and hear the voice and

you can hear the inflection. They're trying

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[Robb]: to at least change that part where I

think it's the internet and what we do on phones

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[Robb]: is becoming, it's dehumanizing people.

Maybe not making them stupid, but definitely

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[Robb]: making them robotic.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'd agree with that. I

would to some degree. I don't and again, I

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: don't think it's as much

our generation as it is the ones under us.

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I

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[Robb]: Yeah.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: definitely think the ones

under us are losing the human touch

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[Robb]: Yeah.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: of, you know, of life.

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[Robb]: I think that our generation definitely

gripped it. Cause we're the AOL generation.

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[Robb]: We were the first ones

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: to really, I was probably in my mid

twenties.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: We were the first one to take a hold

of it and go, oh, this is cool. And we saw,

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[Robb]: I think we saw the flaws in it quickly,

probably in the first two or three years of

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[Robb]: that going, man, this... Because you

could get stuck on AOL for hours and hours

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: And I think that's the other thing the

internet is. It's a time crusher. You know,

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[Robb]: time is a currency, right? And you don't

have a lot of it. And

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That's true.

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[Robb]: you should choose how that time is spent.

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[Robb]: And again, entertainment is a weird

thing. Podcasts, I spend a lot of time on podcasts.

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[Robb]: But I generally only do them while I'm

driving. I rarely listen to a podcast at my

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[Robb]: house. Because I think that's where

the phone becomes your. your lifeline of going,

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[Robb]: okay, I can plug this in, I can listen

to this, because I already know I have a 35

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[Robb]: minute drive into work and I have a

35 minute on the way home. So I can listen

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[Robb]: to, don't get this twisted, on the way

to work, and I can finish it on the way home.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: And generally, I listen to our show

afterwards just to make sure that what I put

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[Robb]: out sounds really good. And I'll usually

do that with whatever show I listen to. I'll

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[Robb]: listen to Joe Rogan every blue moon

and Rogan will have a three and a half hour

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[Robb]: podcast. And I rarely finish them because

I have to listen to them for days.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: for all week.

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[Robb]: And he puts out daily podcasts. So

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: to listen to a three and a half hour

podcast is really hard for me. But people will

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[Robb]: say the same thing about movies, right?

Who wants to watch a three and a half hour

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[Robb]: movie?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah, I can't sit still

that long. Just can't.

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[Robb]: Yeah, and you're you like to interact

with people. So I would rather I think I'm

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[Robb]: getting more like that. I would rather

interact with human beings. I'd rather go sit

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[Robb]: at a at a restaurant for three hours,

bullshitting than,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: you know, sit on my phone for three

hours,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Absolutely.

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[Robb]: you know, texting with somebody.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Oh, for sure. Without a

doubt. It's always better to have the person,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: unless you're fighting.

But even then, it's like it's good to have

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: the person right there

because you could communicate faster, more

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: effectively. You see body

language, you hear tones. You got all that.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: But if it's a fight, fuck

it. I'll text all text, get my point across

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and then be like, yeah,

I'm done.

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[Robb]: Yeah, but like I said, when you're fighting,

inflection is everything as well. Because you

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: could say something that you don't mean

for it to come off bad, and then someone will

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[Robb]: read that and make it the worst thing

possible. And

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Well,

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[Robb]: the internet...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that takes us to a different

type of person that's coming around now, where

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: everybody's a victim. So

you can't say the truth and you gotta watch

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: how you sugarcoat things

and make it so that people can receive it.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That's a whole nother ball

game.

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[Robb]: Mm-hmm.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: And that's a pain in the

ass, actually. That's where I have a hard time

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: with younger people. I'm

like, no, I don't want to do this with you.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Like,

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[Robb]: Right.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: I'd rather talk to somebody

that I can have communication with, not somebody

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: that's going to be offended

or have a problem with every word that comes

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: out of my mouth. I don't

have time for that.

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[Robb]: Yeah, and I think the internet in general,

where it's meant to get lost in now, because

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: like, look at social media. I forgot

the time spent. I'm gonna try to look that

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[Robb]: up while we're talking. What the average

time spent is on social media, which is the

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[Robb]: internet. So let's see if it comes up.

average.

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[Robb]: Let's see, here we go. So the average

person spends 152 minutes a day.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That's

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[Robb]: So

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: it? I think that's low.

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[Robb]: this was as of 2022, but I mean, even

so that's, what is that, 60, it's almost two

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[Robb]: hours a day of your life is spent on

social media.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Hmm.

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[Robb]: So if you look at it that way, eight

hours is spent sleeping. Right?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Bye.

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[Robb]: So, and then eight hours is supposed

to be spent working,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: but you're there generally nine, if

you have a job like mine where you get an hour

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[Robb]: lunch.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm

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[Robb]: So that's 17 hours right there of work

and

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[Robb]: sleeping. So you only have, what, another

six hours of time to yourself.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: and two spent on the phone.

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[Robb]: Yeah, so think about that when you break

it down like that two hours now seems like

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[Robb]: damn I'm spending a lot of time and

that's just the average I guarantee you it's

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[Robb]: It's much more than that It's probably

gaining steam, you know what I mean

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm

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[Robb]: as it as it goes more And then think

of it this way, that's just social media. Some

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[Robb]: of us work where we have to be on the

internet, right? We have to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: right?

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[Robb]: look up stuff. And so let's go there.

Let's go average, average. spent. on internet.

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[Robb]: So let's see if it says, let's go here.

The average time spent on the internet per

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[Robb]: day in 2022 was six hours and 35 minutes.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That's way higher.

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[Robb]: Now that's, but that's the internet

that could be, you know, Amazon, that could

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[Robb]: be social media, but yeah, that's the

average user is six hours and 58 minutes per

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[Robb]: day. So like we said, you only have

six hours of free time. So obviously

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: some of this is spent at work,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: but that's a massive amount of time.

taken out of your day to surf the internet,

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[Robb]: buy stuff on Amazon, argue with people

on social media. I think so is it making us

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[Robb]: stupider? Eek. That's a...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: No, I don't know. I'd say

more disconnected than anything. I would say

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not as stupid because I'm

more than willing to look up things now where

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: before I didn't because

of having to go through those big books to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: find anything. So I

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[Robb]: So we'll

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: don't

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[Robb]: say

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: know.

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[Robb]: definitely disconnected from

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Hmm.

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[Robb]: social life.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: For sure.

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[Robb]: Yeah, I mean six hours, that's a, now

that I think about it, I mean I'm on the internet

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[Robb]: a lot because of my work, I have to

be able to search product and our website is

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[Robb]: kind of a way of searching things for

myself to find part numbers. So

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: that one, I would say that part of that

hat is part of my job. I used to be on the

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[Robb]: internet a lot more when I would get

home, but I kind of shut down. If anything,

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[Robb]: I'm on television and I usually am just

zoning out there. I'm just trying to break

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[Robb]: down my day and kind of relax. Some

of it's,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: you know, walking my dog or doing other

things and... you know, an hour of that is

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[Robb]: traveling to get dinner or making dinner.

But I do my best now to kind of the problem

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[Robb]: now is that YouTube is. Television.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: So you can get lost in that. And to

me, that's almost the internet. So am I getting

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[Robb]: lost in nonsense? Yeah, probably. So

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: I don't know, I think, you know, where

do we stand? I'll kind of agree with you. I

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[Robb]: will say that it's more disconnection

than it is dumbing us down.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm

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[Robb]: But I definitely think that we're losing

the war of maybe reading books and learning

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[Robb]: more that direction. If you're using

the internet to read books, like, you know.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Like I do? Heh

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[Robb]: legitimate

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: heh

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[Robb]: books,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: heh.

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[Robb]: I think it's awesome. Cause that's just

another way of reading. Cause you're having

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[Robb]: to download the book. You're just using

the phone or tablet as a way to carry the book

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[Robb]: differently.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: I just hope that we find a way to use

it more for legitimate learning and... and

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[Robb]: finding a way to put that into the hands,

like you said, of how to use your hands and

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[Robb]: how to function with that and kind of

taking the knowledge we learn on the internet

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[Robb]: and using it in the field. Because like

my son has learned how to cook a bunch of shit

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[Robb]: on the internet, which is awesome.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Nice. Me too.

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[Robb]: Yeah, so. You know, and not just recipes

legitimately watching them how to cut certain

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[Robb]: things and how to do it a certain way.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: But I hope that we find a way to use

social media way less. Because I think that

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[Robb]: it's not making us dumber, but it's

making us way more divided.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm, absolutely.

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[Robb]: So, I don't know if we've came up with

a solution on this episode, but we've definitely

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[Robb]: got to throw opinions around and kind

of discuss where we think we are with the internet.

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[Robb]: We'd love to hear what you guys think.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yeah.

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[Robb]: We've definitely been getting a couple

of more ideas from you fans as well, which

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[Robb]: is super awesome.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: That's great.

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[Robb]: And I've thrown out a couple of invites

to some of the people. to see if they would

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[Robb]: like to come on and discuss those issues.

So if you'd like to

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mm-hmm.

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[Robb]: discuss anything with us and be on the

show, go to our social medias on Instagram,

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[Robb]: Twitter, Facebook for now. Soon, tip

talk and come on the show. We would love to

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[Robb]: hear from you and

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: And it's

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[Robb]: check.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: not like you have to come

out to us. It's an easy hookup on the internet,

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: so...

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[Robb]: Yes, the interwebs, what do you know?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Yes.

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[Robb]: And make sure to check us out on every

platform that you can hear podcasts on, Apple,

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[Robb]: Spotify, Google, Amazon, iHeartRadio,

every single one, we're everywhere. And yeah,

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[Robb]: next week, what are we gonna talk about?

We are gonna talk about losing weight and how

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[Robb]: hard it is. Because...

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Mmm, good one.

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[Robb]: For fuck's sake, it's hard.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Hehehehe

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[Robb]: And I think the older you get, the harder

it is. But we're

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: greed.

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[Robb]: gonna discuss that and what we think

and maybe ways of getting to do that. I don't

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[Robb]: know. Well, me and Tina are gonna talk

about that this week as we go, but we have

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[Robb]: shows lined up for sure. Anything else

for our internet talk there, Miss Tina?

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Have a good week everybody

and remember to follow, subscribe and share.

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[Robb]: Share. Yes. Share with your grandma

so they can hear us say cuss words all the

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[Robb]: time.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: No.

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[Robb]: And then share with your young teenager

so they can be mad at us.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Oh Jesus.

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[Robb]: Until next week, you know, this is an

opinion show, so don't get it twisted. Keep

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[Robb]: coming back. We'll see you next week.

And Tina, thanks a lot. We'll talk to you later.

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[Tina Marie Garcia]: Thanks Rob, have a good

one.

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[Robb]: No problem, bye.

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Dont get this Twisted
A show of opinions. yes, we all have them. weekly episodes

About your hosts

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Robb Courtney

Host with a serious opinion. Ex pro wrestler, and all-around goof ball that believes in the 2A and your freedom of speech.
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Tina Garcia

Co-host